Given the immensity of the damage caused daily by Trump and his corrupt, clown-car administration, a focus on his profoundly negative effect on American culture may seem minor. After all, unlike RFK, Jr.’s effect on American health, DOGE’s erasure of USAID, and Trump’s wars of choice, people aren’t dying when he posts his childish, ungrammatical rants on his ridiculous “Truth Social.”
But I would argue that the longterm results of Trump’s wholesale assault on decency and civility are immensely consequential. And once again, Stuart Stevens has articulated my concerns.
In an essay about Robert Mueller and his own father, Stevens quoted James Fallows, who had reacted to Trump’s post when Mueller died (“Good, I’m glad he’s dead,”) by writing that it was “the most despicable public statement by an American public official in my lifetime.” Stevens agreed, calling it a “vomit-inducing celebration of the death of an American hero.” He then connected it to what he termed the GOP’s “mass suicide of decency,” and offered an illuminating analogy:
This is not about Trump. He’s a deeply disturbed sociopath slipping into the darkness of dementia and failing health. It is about the collective failure of the Republican party to exhibit even a base level of admirable human qualities. If a woman is raped in a busy airport and the passengers ignore it and walk by, the shame and guilt is shared by every person who looks the other way. When they stop to cheer the rapist, they are active participants in the horrific crime…
The genius of Donald Trump is that he recognized with some feral instinct that the Republican Party did not believe in anything but power, and if he gave them power, there was no bottom to the degradation they would both endure and inflict. So we watch an entire political party stand silent while they watch him disgrace the office of the presidency, which is to betray every American.
Lest we miss the broader implications of what Stevens is (accurately) describing, he enumerates them:
What happens to a society that elevates the worst in its midst and demeans the best? It was no accident of birth that America produced so many men like my father and Robert Mueller. They grew up in a culture that honored sacrifice, decency, character. There was an assumed civic bond linking personal conduct to the greater good.
That is the legacy that these Republicans have betrayed. Like those in a lynch mob, they take comfort in their numbers. When Republican elected officials look at their phones and see the man who they embraced gleefully over Robert Mueller’s death, they know it’s wrong. They know they would never want to see their children show such crass cruelty. But then they put down their phones and try to convince themselves it doesn’t matter.
The decline of decency and civility is not a small matter. We are all–far more than most of us realize–products of the cultures in which we live our daily lives. We adapt to its expectations, and understand that others will evaluate us based upon behaviors that are considered appropriate in that culture.
Uncivil and thuggish behaviors from public officials fray the bonds between citizens, turning Americans against each other. Such behaviors erode our humanity by scorning the human empathy and kindness that connects us to others. In a society as diverse as ours, the message is that some people consider themselves superior to others and that those “superior” folks believe they are entitled to the childish contempt they show for others.
Scroll through the comment sections of posts to social media and you will see the results.
The best part of the recent NO KINGS protests were the multiple signs that explicitly rejected that descent into thuggery and the accompanying erosion of our civic solidarity–signs that celebrated the inclusion of all Americans into a capacious We The People.
When we finally eject this corrupt and immature collection of clowns, grifters and fascists, we need to turn our attention to three very important tasks: we need to hold the participants in this autocratic and unAmerican effort responsible–preferably via a very public version of the Nuremberg trials. We need to undertake the repair and modification of the government systems that allowed–indeed, facilitated– the erosion of our constitutional democracy, and we need to elevate a culture that honors decency, civility and character–a culture that respects knowledge, objective fact, science and expertise, and marginalizes anti-intellectualism and tribalism.
Our children and grandchildren deserve thoughtful adult role-models.

Indeed. We need a kind of “new Victorian age”, when our leaders model character and kindness as Queen Victoria did throughout her long life following the death of her despcable uncle – who despite his numerous persinal flaws did not descend to the mobster traits if the Trump family. Quite…!
And we need them do so in a decisive, steely manner that expects the best from themselves, fellow members of their own party, all Americans, and fellow world leaders.
Best would be to see Democratic presidential hopefuls modeling that kind if behaviour decisively NOW, and calling for others to do the same. Sadly Gavin Newsom has chosen to go to a tongue-in-cheek version of Trump-mockery instead, which is amusing enough. But not the model we need to follow. The Obamas have the right approach, but aren’t available. Buttegieg has the character, but is the US ready for a fully out LGBTQ leader yet to unite us without inviting yet another Trump to rise up? Can we find someone who isn’t quite a billionaire like Pritzker for a while?…
We need a new Victoria.
“The decline of decency and civility is not a small matter.” And it began before the 2024 election; it began when the rise of the likes of Trump in politics was allowed.
The rise of profanity and inhumane decisions and actions began on Day One of Term Two of Trump’s blatant Fascism which has spread faster than Hitler’s rise in Europe and he now rules globally. NATO should not be in fear of Trump withdrawal; Trump should be in fear of NATO allies taking action against the U.S. for our war crimes. Our allies and neutral nations are the nations being attacked by Iran’s war efforts in retaliation for Trump’s attack on Iran. I received a News Brief that Netanyahu is backing out of the war he and Trump started; but it quickly disappeared…what exactly is that situation at this time?
Trump’s “firing” of Noem, which hasn’t ended with her being gone yet or DHS being funded and reactivated and Pam’s “firing” is his face-saving action regarding the Epstein Files situation; both will be given other positions in his administration and probably replaced by someone worse. Speaker Johnson is refusing to call the House back into session (can only be on Trump’s order) to deal with that issue and others. Stuart Stevens’ words ring true and have been written here by Sheila and the majority of commenters but Trump’s full immunity by Congress and SCOTUS to chose his wars and pay for them with our Day Care, Health Care, Public Safety from our own military, declining infrastructure and loss of rights daily is our reality. He is destroying America and American’s civil and human rights while spouting his war on Iran is to save Iranian citizens from inhumanity of their leadership.
“Our children and grandchildren deserve thoughtful adult role-models.”
But for how many on this blog are our children and grandchildren the current adult role-models?
May we all live long enough to see and facilitate the return of decency.